A Reflection on Transition
“The greatest of these is love”
I Cor. 13 13.
This week is
filled with endings and beginnings as both my sons
will end a chapter in their
life only to begin a new one in the fall. My youngest son completes Grade 8 and
the older one finishes Grade 12. They will both move to new schools, new
challenges and many new opportunities. But it is this week that has been
challenging for me. My little boys are not so little anymore! Sure they like to
take things apart and put them back together just as they did when they were
little but it is also a time when they are preparing for what God has in store
for them both. And I am grateful that they believe this too!
This is what
I believe- God is preparing them for what is to come and has been all along. My
husband and I are merely coaches as they continue to grow up and find out their
abilities and interests. And sometimes the coaching means pushing and sometimes
it means just letting things be.
I am feeling
these transitions not because I am getting older, but because I see them taking
on ideas for themselves and offering their opinions and their gifts for the
sake of others and not needing my hand to shush them, push them or even
encourage them. This too is because God showed me how to love others and I
learned this from my family. I just pray that this kind of love will continue
to be shared.
Paul wrote
in I Corinthians about the ‘most excellent way to live”. This is a life filled with love. And as we
read through this chapter so often shared a weddings and funerals, love is
described in many ways and with many attributes—patient, kind, not envy, boast,
not proud, not rude not self-seeking, not easily angered; rejoices in the
truth, always protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres; and never fails.
Paul
describes love in action as a child who talked and though and reasoned as a
child. Yet when maturity set in he became a man and put childish ways behind.
But the real person he was is but a poor reflection of the whole person he
became. A person who loves.
As the
summer begins, I give thanks to God for His love shown to me in Jesus and the
ability to share this love with my family and others. This time of transition
will continue until the younger son goes to high school and the older son starts university in
September. It is almost like getting ready to start again and they are—new
chapters in their life with God leading them.
Let us
remember all those who are graduating and preparing for something new. Let us
remember them in prayer and with love and encouragement. Let us rejoice that
God will lead them for they are His children.
PRAYER:
Holy God we thank you for your love and your willingness to encourage us as we walk into challenges and changes. Show us your way and enable us to reach out to others as we grow and love others as Jesus taught. Be with us as we face these times of transition in this life and always. Amen.
Holy God we thank you for your love and your willingness to encourage us as we walk into challenges and changes. Show us your way and enable us to reach out to others as we grow and love others as Jesus taught. Be with us as we face these times of transition in this life and always. Amen.
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